When someone looks at you and tells you are unique and special,be grateful to them and then APPRECIATE YOURSELF for that.When In a crowd you are pinpointed not because you are the most beautiful but because you portrayed a desirable quality that attracts attention,APPRECIATE YOURSELF.We got both Our Dark sides n Our Light sides,Don't ignore the fact that we all possese some reasonable amount of undesirable Qualities,YES WE DO HAVE,But even that put more effort to bring out the opposite of that in u,APPRECIATE YOURSELF n u'l live a happy positive life.